but only because you are stuck in a box about where to find lesbian, gay, bi or trans people. Secondly, we love to learn and hang out with smart people. So don’t miss what’s happening for 2013 in your city and town for lecture series.I work with lesbians from New York City to small towns in Texas to Dubai, Australia, Canada and the woods of Maine, and almost every woman I work with believes it’s hard to find LGBT people. Start checking out your local university and its lecture series. Harvard isn’t the only university or college that does lecture series.But hey, that’s cold comfort when women are putting “six feet tall, minimum” in their dating profiles and your friends all call you “Short Round”.The thing is, as with many other masculine insecurities, this is predominantly in our heads. Worse, I’m the shortest of all my friends who range from 5’1o” on the short side, to 6’7″ on the tall side.The trick is understanding how to make height less of an issue.Seem like a tall order One of the worst things that guys can do to themselves is to get defensive about being short.There have been a number of scientific research studies conducted that have investigated this very hot topic.Here are some of the findings that speak to how we can decipher an individual’s sexual orientation: A Cornell University study reports that the pupils of our eyes dilate when viewing sexual imagery that we find exciting.
Here you are, single again, but this time with children. I would also advise that you let your ex-husband know you are introducing someone to your children. It’s not just your life; it’s your kid’s lives too. You should introduce him as a friend and give your children the chance to get to know your guy in a fun, relaxed, no pressure atmosphere. My son actually liked my boyfriend so much he wanted to call him dad.Have a long talk about expectations, discipline, money, education and anything else you might deal with. You want your children to be happy in this new environment.Dating after divorce can be tricky, but if you take your time and navigate the right way, it can be a win-win for everyone. I dated my boyfriend (now my husband) for six months before I introduced him to my children.And apart from hanging with an exclusively LGBT crowd, what else do you want to learn about this year? Now this is just one of at least a dozen events that this group does annually.For over 20 years Art Erotica has been one of the most unique and scintillating art events in Austin.But my height has only been as much of a problem as I’d let it be.